Marrying your very best friend is in fact the best option, since enough spiritual attachments would have formed via non-sexual interaction and action with the best friend before sex is introduced.
After a few years of being friends with somebody and having grown closer to this individual to the extent of becoming best friends for quite a while, even many years or decades, many a person suddenly realized they are in love with this ideal friend. In most cases when a person has feelings for another, the feelings or feelings are reciprocal; differently those feelings will not be there.
By the time these two have sex, whether premarital or only after getting married having successfully abstained, enough religious attachments shaped that joined the two souls on the perfect levels in the correct elements and sequence. This way results in the attachments to form the right way before sex as was intended for the majority of humans with souls, other than religious attachments having formed only on the sexual level due to sex which was introduces too premature.
Oftentimes best friends of the opposite or even same sex, make commitments toward one another, not realizing or understanding what happens in the spirit world in doing so, which contributes and is to the benefit of a successful life-partnership. If enough time was spent together interacting in a nonsexual manner, where the perfect feelings have formed, developed and grown to full capacity, the attachments could form ardently and secure properly with equal and balanced emotions and capacities that would last a lifetime when commitments are made or vows are taken.
Individuals should fall in love with another’s traits, personality, contributing conducts and abilities, etc., yet when people start having”butterflies” around a specific individual, they immediately want to share themselves, their souls or the entire bundle and joy of sex with that person. When sex is shared in this early stage it destroys the chance of growing love on a top degree that would be in existence for life and beyond. Having attached the perfect way through the right behavior is permanently beneficial to souls, as love is taken with into the afterlife, merely for having experienced being loved or having loved another truly, that is absolutely not true with sex!
The benefit of marrying one’s best friend is that one is 100% sure one is loved for the right reasons and not for good sex, one’s genitals or sexual infatuation that most definitely would ware off after a while.
Sex can not cause souls to join or combine (form religious attachments) on another degree, aside from the sexual level, such as the”Love level” or the”Mental/Intellectual degree” or any of the other possible levels where souls could attach to form a unification.
To protect one’s own soul it is best to have monogamous sex with only 1 partner throughout life, which would cause one’s soul to become and keep clean from religious contamination to end up in the ideal place in the afterlife and to have the safety of true love, but more importantly to enjoy one’s life while in a life-partnership.